Category: relationship

Expections & fulfillment!!!

You and I were different but we promised to travel on the path of our lives together. Knowing the journey would be a zigzag one we still decided to go ahead!!

Well.. now the question is how do we know it is worth of everything, what if my expectations and your fulfillment and vice versa doesn’t sync in the future. That is a question almost every couple has to face once in life. So sometimes it’s like you reached somewhere together but then you realise it’s a not going anywhere and then you are left with no option but to take a difficult decision, i.e to turn back to the pavilion or to reach an

uncertain end crossing the confusion.

It just takes a promise, little compromise, a little dose of adjustment and most importantly respect for each other and there..you are all set to take the leap for a brighter tomorrow.

**Dedicated to all the newly weds!!

Sawarni..

Compromise & Relationships..

I wonder if there is anyone alive who can say that they haven’t compromise at least for once in their life.

Compromise is a part & parcel of life. Be it compromise in what you wanted in life or be it what life is offering you, compromise becomes inevitable. But it is truly said compromise till it doesn’t start to suffocate you.

As my title says here I am going to talk about comprising in a relationship. It takes two people to start a new relationship and they need to adapt to the varied situations that may come up and which may lead to compromise at times.

Mutual compromises

Comprised without any regrets and second thoughts.

She wanted to go to a beach destination for the vacay whereas he wanted to go to some hills. But finally they came to a decision to visit a city instead and they had a happy vacation.

So this can be called mutual compromise where both the individuals are contented at the end.

Happy compromises

One of the partner compromises happily for the other.

She was invited to the party but since he was at a remote place for work and unable to contact. She decided not to attend the party, she happily compromised her evening thinki about him.

So we can see here he never forced her to stay in but it was her decision not to go without him, a compromise at will.

Sad compromise

Regretting compromise

Sometimes just to show an gesture few people compromises on a few things for their partners but later start regretting the decisions and they keep on struggling within themselves whether they will always have to keep on comprising like they are doing it now.

This is a regretting compromise.

Forced compromises

Completely against will

She wanted to work in her previous workplace after marriage too but she had to compromise and shift to the new city due to her nuptial connection.

This is a compromise she was forced into by the situation.

Life is a journey and the stops of the journey are the choices we make. Length of compromises is a choice we can make and pull it until its stretchable not beyond that.

❤️Sawarni